The Ring Makes All the Difference

The Ring Makes All the Difference: The Hidden Consequences of Cohabitation and the Strong Benefits of Marriage by Glenn T. Stanton
Moody Publishers, September 2011

I am going to be chasing this book at the local Christian Book World as soon as I am able.

You can find an interview with the author of the book, Glenn Stanton and Caryn Rivadeneira of Christianity Today here

Glenn T. Stanton has made a career studying the role of families in our society—both as a consultant in the George W. Bush administration and today as director for family formation studies at Focus on the Family. His latest book, The Ring Makes All the Difference: The Hidden Consequences of Cohabitation and the Strong Benefits of Marriage (Moody), explores the many downsides of an increasingly popular practice among young couples: living together before marriage. Caryn Rivadeneira, an author and regular contributor to the CT women’s blog, Her.meneutics, spoke with Stanton about his research findings and why they matter to men, women, and children.

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Dr Stuart Robinson: The Challenge of Islam

The ecumenical movements of the 80s to the present have often clouded the actual differences between Islam and Christianity. The media and liberal ‘theologians’ also often attempt to minimize or nullify these differences.

Some of these differences include:

  • The veracity of the Bible
  • The Virgin Birth of Jesus of Nazareth
  • The Death and Resurrection of Jesus
  • The Deity of Jesus the Christ
  • to name a few…
An interesting outcome of the minimization of differences of religion is that seeming similarities become set in the culture as realities. Hence people, even Christians; though not often Muslims; seem to think that Christians and Muslims worship the same God.
Christians and Muslims do NOT, in fact, worship the same God.  Strong adherents of either faith group would deny this. 
Thabiti Anyabwile, Collin Hansen at The Gospel Coalition discuss the question: Do Muslims and Christians Worship the Same God?

Do Muslims and Christians Worship the Same God? from The Gospel Coalition on Vimeo.

Dr Stuart Robinson in his book The Challenge of Islam

writes a compelling call “…to the church to act with new decisiveness, humility and devotion”. This is not a call to war, to viciousness or turmoil; but rather a call to effective witness, evangelism and love.

Every Christian should at least read this booklet; every pastor should know this booklet well.

Every person who has evangelistic dealings with people of the Muslim faith should not only read this booklet; but, also spend the time to study the Qu’ran. Muslims often know and reverence their holy book more than we Christians reverence the Holy Bible, the Word of God.

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Bradley R.E Wright : Christians Are Hate-Filled Hypocrites…and Other Lies You’ve Been Told: A Sociologist Shatters Myths From the Secular and Christian Media

Bradley R.E Wright

“Guess what? You don’t have to believe statistics! The Bible commands us to love others unconditionally, but this applies to people not statistics. With statistics, we should be everything we shouldn’t be with people, cranky, sceptical, and critical. With statistics, acceptance should be earned, not freely given.”P218

(There is a funny anecdote just under that quote also!)

I am, neither a sociologist, nor a statistician but I am a farmer so give me credit for a little commonsense. When we listen to the weather report each day we expect the BOM (Bureau of Meteorology) to get the forecast generally accurate. We at least take the BOM with ‘a grain of salt’. So why is it that when we engage with the media, both secular and Christian, in their reporting of statistics, we suddenly trust them (i.e. the media) to be explicitly accurate and even prophetic. Ignoring the very point that sensation sells.

“CaHFH etc…” has the mix of humour, candour and perspicuity which allows the forceful nature of the rebuke to be effective yet without that over-bearing and dreadful negativity which permeates some books written to chastise the Christian church.

In my opinion Brad Wright’s book is …, well …, just …, right!

Rather than pontificating about what Brad Wright writes, go and buy it! I found my copy in the ½ price bin. That is actually a real sad statistic and a more dire social commentary; considering the plethora of [bad word] that was in the Christian Bookshop. (The [bad word] books should have been in the ½ price bin; or, in the other more appropriate receptacle.)

What did I get from the “CaHFH etc…”?

  • I should have taken Sociology and statistics at university – (it may have been fun?!?)
  • I must do a much better job of research when using statistics for sermon preparation! (I check email virus warnings before I pass them on so why not statistics or polls.)
  • Use my commonsense a bit more often. (Perhaps Commonsense isn’t that common after all)
  • I will just ignore the data and get on with the Great Commission (Message to self -I will still read the data – I just won’t start hyperventilating or get apoplexy over it. I will start praying about the actual situation behind the data a whole lot more)
  • There is a much deeper side to this book and it will take a rather long time to think through all the ramifications.

If you are of that strange, quirky bent that enjoys looking at statistics and trends, all the while sifting the ‘stats’ through you ‘commonsense’ filter and realising that 1 + 1 does not equal a Tamarind Tree then “CaHFH etc…” is the book for you.

However, more important is that if you are not that sort of person, and especially if you are in some measure a leader of persons, then this book is a must read!

Oh! It is funny!

PS. It is much easier to ‘take a whipping’ from someone who loves you; than from a bad-toothed pirate with one peg-leg and an eye on stealing your treasure! – Thanks Brad.

Buy it on Amazon

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John MacArthur: The Gospel According to Jesus

This Book by John MacArthur of Grace To You is astounding!

The Gospel According to JesusThis is a must read! I found it saddening when I read reviews of TGATJ that there are Christians who have problems with this book. I understand the secular world having difficulty with it, I expect those who give no credence to the reality of Jesus Christ to have problems with this book; but Christians? Perhaps the very reason that Christians have problems with this book is the reason that this book is important. I.e. that they have a  problem with the Lordship of Jesus Christ.

What is it about? Probably the best way to answer that is to say the Lordship of Jesus Christ. John MacArthur gently and clearly expounds the implications of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. This simultaneously reveals the devastating consequences of an ‘easy believe’ type of Christianity and the theological and social implications of holding to a less than biblical view of salvation.

 

 

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